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there is this girl is cute but she has a problem with her personality, nonetheless she is interesting and she is one of my good friends. at first i liked her but she told me that everyone we are friends with likes her so i decided not to be just another guy and became a friend right away so i wouldnt have to go thru that.

apparently i have said mean things to her n things that came out wrong but its nothing insulting, and whenever we go out she always grabs my arms, and whenever she gets a chance she would be the first one to hold to my hands, and that i know will get me to like her so after a while i just wipe her off.

we were at the club and we danced and i told her that dancing with her was weird since we are such good friends(but it wusnt i just said that to sound like i dont like her) and she said dat was hurtful, n now shes mad at me.

at first i thought that she liked me but i have asked her before to go out to the movies or just chill, and she wont want to, but whwnever we go out in a big group she always wants me to be there... its confusin as hell

i kno most of you would just say to come out n tell her i like her, but what else is a solution? does it sound like she likes me?

im usually good with knowing if a girl likes me, but she has me wondering. i alreayd apologized abut she told me that i have to prove it, what else can i do more than apologize?

(i kno dis is kinda old but yay! project df is up!)

Well,
proving that you are sorry isn't that hard. next time you go out with her, just dance with her. don't talk , just "enjoy" the moment. And, make sure that you are the first to ask her to dance, not the other way arround ( meaning that she asks you first ). Also, try to talk to her in private. Ask her if she want's to go outside with you to get some air, and if she want's to : that's your window of opportunity. That's when you tell her how you feel.

Hope this works for ya.

if you are certain that she feels lightly the same way like you just ask her for a one-on-one date and then tell her that when the mood is right

you're in a difficult position i must say. But the way how i think it is, she doesn't like to be alone in a big group, that's why she allways asks you to join, and maybe she is also feeling something for u 2 but she might be not sure enough to go on a date with u alone..

girls are confusing dude, hope other people here, even if i had an idea, it would only get you in deeper s... than you are now

hope it works out for you

so am i confusing too? just wondering...

i can't really say weither she likes you or not.. so i would say be yourself around her. get her relatively alone. meaning a few steps from the rest. not too far so she will feel treatened and not to close so they can listen. just tell her what you feel and why you said it. don't say sorry for what you said, just tell her why you said it.. she'll give a true answer.. going from i like you, i'm not sure, i'm insecure, i don't like you, wanna be friends...

nah like our whole big group is good friends with each other we always go out everywhere together, so its not dat she likes to be alone in a big group thats what confuses me the most, like me and her now we got str8 again but she still wants to have the talk but we couldnt cuz we were goin to go out drinkin n she didnt want 2 to feel all depressed while shes drinkin so it made sense.

but later on that night, she brought it up and wouldnt let it go and i kept on tellin her that we would tlk bout it later like she said but she wouldnt listen, either way nothin really got resolved so far... ezcept the fact that we tlk now

i think both of you are having confusions? maybe she is confuse right now about her feeling towards you and she is not ready to face the truth right now. she wants u around because she feel comfort and she trust you than anybody else. girls can be confusing so like the others here have said, try to talk to her when u can find the right time and place. if she does not want to talk about it yet, then give her some time and then talk to her again after that. if she still doesn't want to talk about it, then just be her friend... and the truth might come out later...

alrite well thanks everybody, u guys helped me clarify a couple of things i needed outside opinion for all of this, since all of my close friends know this girl and half of them like her, i will tlk to her dis weekend and if somethin good comes outta this, i will tell you if ur solutions worked lol

thanks again

well, good luck. hope everything will be fine...

may the force be with you young jedi

spammer

so yea we talked bout it, i felt like both of us were bein sketchy, i apologized but she says its not a big deal anymore that she got over it, nonetheless she wanted to talk about it friday and saturday night and i dunno y, i find that she wants to tell me something but shes scared to let it out(maybe its the i like you thing)

yea but saturday night, i got super drunk and d group decided to go to this abandoned insane asylum and i knew i wus goin to puke if i got in a car but she sat right next to me and rested her head on my lap, and i remember holding her hand and we were both playin with each other's hands, and it just felt so right and good, and the bad part is that i knew the vomit was gon to come up any second, and i started breathin hard but i ended up pukin lol sucked ass cuz i wus feelin real good, what a way to impress right?

and no i did not puke on her lol , but she took care of me for the rest of the night, dat was real sweet of her cuz she hates it when people get that drunk.

well, good thing is, now you know you gotta stop drinking that much. Hope it all turns out good for ya man. on the looks of it : it's gooing pretty good.

Allright dude

its heading the good way

just don't do that drinking and vomiting thing

is a turn off for most girls